[Life Style] Even a hustler can date a tough boss lady

We have all at one time met a couple and thought to ourselves, ‘How did he end up with her? She’s too good for him!’ Every guy has that girl that he is positive if he ever approached her romantically, the best he could hope for is a pitiful once-over and a gentle let down, simply because she is ‘out of his league.’
He feels that they are on different levels of attractiveness, hence he wouldn’t fare well if he pursued her romantically. He is a five, while she is a solid nine. How could things possibly work?
There is no denying that people who are conventionally beautiful have an advantage in mate selection. We are a culture that places inordinate value on physical attractiveness and as insensitive as it may seem, no one wants to date someone ‘beneath’ them.
They want to date someone who is more or equally attractive as them. Having said that, I think this whole notion of leagues is utter bullshit. It is nothing but a cowardly way of manipulating themselves into backing out of possible rejection. There is no premier league of people, despite what society tries to convince you. Being out of her league is just inside your mind.
Putting yourself beneath her, or out of her league, means that you believe in the flawed idea that there are leagues within humanity. Desire is a personal, illusive thing. What you find beautiful, I may find repulsive.
The concept of “leagues” is a self-limiting belief. If there is a foolproof way of disqualifying yourself out of the running with a potential mate of someone who could be into you is regarding yourself to be beneath them or out of their league.

By do so, you essentially send out a subconscious message that you are not good enough for her. If you think you are not good enough for her, she will also feel that she is too good for you and it will be a self-fulfilling prophesy. If you don’t think you’re in their ‘league’, why should they think you’re in their league?
The ability to forge an emotional connection is what is important in attraction. If you want to be in anybody’s league, you need to improve your ability to connect with them emotionally. It all comes down to how you make her feel. Do you make her laugh? Do you make her feel appreciated? Do you have common interests? If you have something in you that she values, then you are in her league.
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Man in court for raping 10 year old daughter

A 59-year old man identified as Julius Selestine, a resident of Ijuganyondo ward in Bukoba Municipality, on Wednesday appeared before the Bukoba Resident Magistrate’s Court charged with raping his ten- year old daughter.

Prosecuting, Principal State Attorney Hashim Ngole, alleged before Resident Magistrate Denice Mpelembwa that the offence was committed on November 3, this year.

He alleged that on the material day, Selestine raped the child who is in standard one, causing her to suffer grievous harm. The accused pleaded not guilty. He was remanded in custody until November 21, this year.

Meanwhile, a resident of Kabwoba village, in Misenyi District appeared before Bukoba Resident Magistrate Samwel Maweda, charged with raping and impregnating his daughter who is in form two.

Prosecuting, State Attorney Emmanuel Mavere told the court that the accused, who was identified as Mustapha Mugaiga (45), committed the offence sometimes in June, this year. He alleged that the form two student (name withheld) at Kabwoba Secondary School in Misenyi District, has since been interdicted.

The accused pleaded “not guilty” to the charge. State Attorney Mavere asked the court not to grant bail to the accused, because members of the community were angry and threatened to harm the accused if he returns to the village. Magistrate Maweda ordered the accused to be remanded in custody.

He adjourned the case until November 21, this year.

 

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Checkout List Of 10 Types Of Boyfriends Every Female Has Had

There are a lot of different types of guys every girl dates before meeting the man of her dreams. It is rare to find your soul-mate at a young age, this is why dating was invented.
According to research the average woman will kiss 15 men, enjoy two long-term relationships and have her heartbroken twice before she meets ‘The One’.
That said here’s a list of 10 types of boyfriends each girl has ever had or at-least seen her friends with;
1. The bad boy
This one breaks your heart over and over again but each time he comes back, you say yes and you can’t explain why.
He’s selfish, manipulative and sensitive but makes you feel so special at the same time though deep down you know he’s messing with you.

It’s the massive thrill you get’s from the risk that keeps you hooked.
2. The one that looks like your brother
He’s the only guy that you have ever felt truly understands you and with whom you can completely be yourself with. He’s probably seen you without make-up, without a a weave or fake-eyebrows but problem is everywhere you go everyone asks whether you two are brother and sister.
3. The colleague
You met at the your workplace and cupid shot his arrow. You went on a date seven times a week, and yes, the five lunch breaks you take count. He almost cost you your career and you late realize it wasn’t worth it ending up a hot topic on office gossip.
4. The hair-ball
This one is 99 percent hair, it’s gross and it bother’s you, yes but you are too love struck to care plus he lets you keep your body hair too.
5. The drunk one
His favorite song is ‘Am so Dirunk.’ He was very civilized on first dates but later he doesn’t take you out to fancy dinners because it’s out of his price range, but if you suggest that the two of you hit the bars, he’ll pick up tabs all night. His favorite jeans have a hole in the ass and his sneakers are rotted out but you drink top shelf.
6. The insecure guy

He’s the type of guy who wants to tag along in all your girls night out. He spends most of his time assuming you are probably in the arms of another man and has random panic attacks that you are about to dump and leave him.
7. The douche-bag
This one doesn’t reply your texts on time or call you back. Every time you ask him about it he says he was busy or tells you a cock and bull story. He is ignorant and cocky.
8. The really really old guy who just gets you

Then there’s the ‘sponsor.’ He’s decades older than you but he just get’s you both emotionally and economically, if you know what I mean. He’s got your back each time you feel like you want to dine in the finest hotels in the city. He’s mature different from all the guys your age. He’s accomplished and probably your own father’s age but that doesn’t bother you.
9. The ridiculously gorgeous guy
He’s so hot and handsome that you can’t take your eyes off of him during dates. You ask yourself all the time what did he see in you, and your girlfriends fight for his attention every time he is around. 99 percent of the time you don’t understand what he’s saying and can’t wait till he takes his shirt off on a hot afternoon.

10. The rib cracking joke master
He’s funny and smart and not good-looking but you enjoy his company any way!

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