[Life Style] Even a hustler can date a tough boss lady

We have all at one time met a couple and thought to ourselves, ‘How did he end up with her? She’s too good for him!’ Every guy has that girl that he is positive if he ever approached her romantically, the best he could hope for is a pitiful once-over and a gentle let down, simply because she is ‘out of his league.’
He feels that they are on different levels of attractiveness, hence he wouldn’t fare well if he pursued her romantically. He is a five, while she is a solid nine. How could things possibly work?
There is no denying that people who are conventionally beautiful have an advantage in mate selection. We are a culture that places inordinate value on physical attractiveness and as insensitive as it may seem, no one wants to date someone ‘beneath’ them.
They want to date someone who is more or equally attractive as them. Having said that, I think this whole notion of leagues is utter bullshit. It is nothing but a cowardly way of manipulating themselves into backing out of possible rejection. There is no premier league of people, despite what society tries to convince you. Being out of her league is just inside your mind.
Putting yourself beneath her, or out of her league, means that you believe in the flawed idea that there are leagues within humanity. Desire is a personal, illusive thing. What you find beautiful, I may find repulsive.
The concept of “leagues” is a self-limiting belief. If there is a foolproof way of disqualifying yourself out of the running with a potential mate of someone who could be into you is regarding yourself to be beneath them or out of their league.

By do so, you essentially send out a subconscious message that you are not good enough for her. If you think you are not good enough for her, she will also feel that she is too good for you and it will be a self-fulfilling prophesy. If you don’t think you’re in their ‘league’, why should they think you’re in their league?
The ability to forge an emotional connection is what is important in attraction. If you want to be in anybody’s league, you need to improve your ability to connect with them emotionally. It all comes down to how you make her feel. Do you make her laugh? Do you make her feel appreciated? Do you have common interests? If you have something in you that she values, then you are in her league.
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